Is This You?
Has this ever happened to you?
Suuuuuuuure it hasn’t.
You’re Not Alone
Every guy has been in situations like this, and most of us have failed to make anything good come out of it. There are a few naturals hanging around, but for the large population of well meaning but sexually frustrated guys, opportunities like the ones I talk about above aren’t a rarity, they are the pattern of life.
I know. I used to go through those sorts of things all the time.
Picking Up Women is not a genetic ability, nor is it intrinsic to certain personalities. It’s a skill, and skills can be learned.
What if I told you that being good with women doesn’t have to be something you are born with? Many guys are too scared of looking like they aren’t “real” men by admitting they have any problems when it comes to women and dating, but that creates an aura of stagnation.
There is knowledge out there which can help, and techniques which, if practiced hard and applied right, can turn ordinary guys into studs.
I’m not only the president of the Hair Club for Men, I’m a member…
I know. Because I’ve changed.
I’m Derek Vitalio, and back when I was an uptight psychology student at college I couldn’t buy a date. Literally.
I didn’t know how to attract women, and whenever I did get nerve and luck together to successfully ask a girl out I’d wind up spending tons of money on a date that always ended with me alone.
It was VERY frustrating.
I got tired of it, SO tired that I tried anything to change my fortune. In one particularly sad attempt, I joined one of those “match-maker” sites to try and get anonymous outside help (look, the computer says I’m great!)
In six months I got ONE response. I jumped at the opportunity.
What a mistake.
Desperation and leaping through any old window of opportunity is bad.
Let’s be kind: she wasn’t exactly my image of feminine perfection. Still, I was so desperate I wound up taking her to a sleazy motel for a one-night-stand where she literally attacked me!
Afterwards, I was disgusted with myself. This was NOT the way I wanted my love life to play out, and in the car ride home I made a decision: I was going to get good with women, or die trying. I was never going to settle for that kind of desperate sex again.
For the next six months I went out all the time and experimented with every approach I could imagine, no matter how ludicrous. Some things worked, most didn’t, but I felt myself making slow progress.
Finally, one day it clicked. I was playing around with my body language and conversation with a green-eyed tight-bodied Latin lady I met at the gym. She was the sort of girl that I wouldn’t have even approached half a year before, but I had decided you can’t get anything sitting on the sidelines.
I was almost shocked the next day when I woke up with her lying next to me in bed. The previous night she kept saying things like “I normally never do something like this…” but nonetheless she had. It was the most satisfying night of my life.
The Keys to the Studmobile: from my experiments to your hands.
In the months that followed I refined what I’d discovered that evening – sometimes it didn’t work, but more and more I was getting great responses from the sort of women I would never have dared dream about before. Infrequent successes turned into expected successes, small victories in establishing rapport became large victories in establishing attraction.
No longer was I simply going out with women, I was getting to the point where I could be picky about them. After three years of perfecting my approach, my techniques, and especially my inner framework, I was exactly where I wanted to be. And I realized, with the wealth I’d been blessed with, I should share.
And that’s just what I’ve done.
How You Can Join Me atop Mt. Mac-Daddy.
There are three main concepts that lie behind my work. They are:
I’ve created a step-by-step guide to help anyone make the transformation I have. This is not an overnight thing – this is not some pheromone snake oil that will instantly transform you into Lothario.
This is a guide, and like any guide, it can only show you the way. YOU are going to have to walk it. It will take daily practice and commitment – a commitment to change the way you interact with the world, or at the very least with the world’s attractive ladies.
The theories and skills I talk about you can put into practice the moment you receive my guide, The Seduction Science System, Volume 2. You won’t be able to pick up every woman you see overnight – in fact, as you experiment with the system, you’ll probably make some embarrassing mistakes now and again.
What’s new?
Apply the skills and theories I teach – based on the concept of relaxed confidence, playfulness, social value, and body language – and you too can succeed where other men fail.
What I CAN tell you is if you commit yourself to this approach, it WILL pay dividends in the end. Depending on how fast you learn and – crucially – internalize lessons, it could be anything from weeks to months before you start to see big differences in your relationships with women.
But if you are willing to put in the sweat needed, this system is guaranteed to work for you. In fact I’m SO confident that if you throw yourself into my guidelines you will achieve success, I offer a 90 day money-back guarantee. If you try my system for 90 days and are convinced it doesn’t fit you, you get a full refund, no questions asked.
That’s right, 90 days to see a difference. If you don’t, take your money back. I only want happy customers.
So what IS this system that I have so much confidence in? Well, let’s start by talking about the BIGGEST problem most men have when it comes to women: limiting beliefs. We have so many misconceptions that start us off on the wrong negative foot to begin with.
Myth #1 She wants someone who looks like Brad Pitt
This is just wrong. How many beautiful ladies have you seen with homely men? Plenty.
Look, having a handsome face and cut physique helps, no doubt. But many of the men I know who are BEST with women aren’t anything to look at. Some are plain, some ugly, some downright gag-worthy.
But because they didn’t have the natural gifts that GQ models have, they worked hard on the areas they can control. And guess what? That works much better.
Men are turned on by curves and things we can see. This is because it makes us FEEL a certain way (and we all know what that way is).
Women don’t work like men. They are turned on by how a man makes them FEEL, yes, but those feelings are triggered much more by a man’s mind and confidence and fun factor than his physique. If you know how to press a woman’s buttons using your head, it doesn’t matter if you look like Lyle Lovett, you can get a Julia Roberts.
Myth #2 You have to have money and a good job
This is a case of a circular misread of the symptoms. Often we see attractive women hanging out with successful men, rich men, and we assume that if we spend money like the rich and famous we’ll approach that success.
Uh, no.
Look, you can spend all your cash in one night, and the lady might enjoy herself. She might also be bored to tears. She might feel like you’re treating her like a cheap floozy (which only works if she’s a cheap floozy).
The fact of the matter is we men THINK that money and career success is important, and so, if we achieve it, we get CONFIDENCE in return.
It’s the confidence that is attractive, not the money. And the spending of money WITHOUT the confidence behind it is, actually, damaging. It stinks of self-esteem problems.
And that’s why so many expensive dates end in loneliness. We think we’ve got the key, but we’ve latched onto a symptom of the REAL secret, nothing more.
Myth #3 Be Yourself
This statement by itself is fine, it’s just that so many misunderstand.
Be yourself means DON’T CHANGE yourself for anyone, which is exactly right. If a woman feels you’re treating her differently in an attempt to endear yourself to her, you’re sunk. So treat her like you do everyone else. Be yourself. Good for you.
What so many people misunderstand, though, is that this doesn’t mean to stagnate. They think they shouldn’t try to change anything, to learn anything new, or to even consider anything they haven’t thought of themselves.
This is a problem.
Look, everything in this world involves skill, and skill needs to be learned. Being yourself doesn’t mean you can’t change – we’re always changing, one way or another. Being yourself means not changing just to please others – do that and you’re done. But learning new skills, that’s a whole ‘nother issue.
I can be myself and learn how to drive. Being myself doesn’t mean I can’t train for a decathlon, or discover the mechanics of stereos, or do whatever else my curiosity and desire leads me to.
And if that desire leads me to wanting success with women, I can still be myself and learn new skills. Misunderstand that, and you’ll never improve.
What Will This System Do – and What WON’T It Do?
So what is it that I teach in my system? Haha, I’m not telling yet. First, I’ll tell you what I WON’T do.
I’m not going to teach you how to hypnotize women into liking you, as others attempt. I’m not going to give you vague affirmations like “Feel good and good things happen,” at least not without a plan of action. I’m not going to teach you one-liners that are supposed to charm a woman and make her surrender to your superior… memorization skills.
The Steps
Because the frame of mind is everything. When you believe in it, you completely change the very ATMOSPHERE that surrounds you; instead of bumbling through life, you shape the reality that surrounds you. The great author Ken Kesey called it living in your own movie; I call it creating your own destiny.
Create Social Value
Dealing With Tests
Rejection Isn’t the End
How To Sparkle When You Talk
Fixing Your Inner Game
I will illuminate all the hidden psychological roadblocks you have, and help you overcome them. I will teach you the secret language of seduction – a language that most men aren’t aware exists, but women pay amazing attention to – and I will teach you how to communicate like a man deserving of attention and affection.
I’m gong to teach you how to undo a lifetime of bad programming and create the frame you need to achieve success.
Overwhelming? Sure, at first. But I break everything down into a series of steps – complete with exercises to get you to your goal – and, taken together, make you into the stud you know is hidden inside.
What’s the key here? Yup, relaxed playfulness.
Can you…
With the skills and knowledge you’ll find in my book, you’ll be able to do all that, and more. And importantly, you’ll know exactly WHY each of these things is important – leaving you free to improv once you get the hang of it.
Creating Social Worth
Riches and fame are nice and all, but they aren’t NEARLY as important as the social value those things carry with them.
The Good news? You don’t need riches OR fame to get the SAME social value – which is the REAL thing that attracts women.
I’ll teach you…
Confidence is one of the major things you need to make the reality around you YOUR reality – and I’ll guide you in the ways to get that confidence – or at the very least in the beginning, how to PROJECT confidence you might not yet have.
Make the world your movie. Every woman will want to be the your leading actress.
Cueing
This is some deep stuff right here. Without saying a WORD you can become the most attractive thing a lady has ever run up against.
Did you know…
In Seduction Science, I teach you EXACTLY what kind of contact to use when, and EXACTLY how you should hold your body to project that alpha-male aura women love so.
Now this part takes the most practice, because our body language speaks about our deepest beliefs in ourselves… and these change slowest. Also, habits of posture change hard – and require a long term of near-constant attention.
So this takes awhile.
However, once you internalize the skills I teach you, you’ll be AMAZED how well they work. The payoff may be a little ways off… but once it comes, you’ll know it was worth it.
Did I Mention… You’ll Save Money in the Long-Run?
Most men try to buy their way into a woman’s heart, to one degree or another. Wrong wrong WRONG!
Now you don’t need to be some Scrooge. But at the same time, when you go out of your way to pay for things you seem both needy and slimy. That’s not good.
If you can take women out in NATURAL settings and in a FRIENDLY PLAYFUL manner, you won’t have to worry about those expensive awkward dinner dates ever again. Unless you happen to be hungry while you’re out together.
See the distinction? If you don’t, you REALLY need this book, so you can understand the difference between a FORCED FAKE ENCOUNTER (which is what most dates are) and a NATURAL one.
For Every Problem, There is a Solution
Of course, there are special situations that require more creative techniques… maybe she has a boyfriend, or is a shy introvert, or you can’t tell whether she just wants a fun night or is looking for marriage.
There are tell-tale signs in all these situations that tell you what she REALLY wants, and help you know how to fulfill that role. I’ve outlined them too.
And that’s just in Volume One. You get two more.
In the second volume, I help you perfect your outer game.
That’s some of what I provide in Volume Two, which focuses on the outer game.
Volume Three is the shift from pure theory to real practice. I provide you with hours of my own encounters with real women, so you can see how all these things play out in real life.
Many of my students – successfully set up by the mental preparation from the first two volumes – find this book the MOST fulfilling. It’s one thing to hear me talk about what I think works. It’s quite another to see it in action. Short of studying a stud in his natural environs, this is the best education in the nuts and bolts of attraction available anywhere.
Not only do I provide exceptional examples of successful interactions, but I provide in-depth analysis so you know EXACTLY what is going on. If you want to get into the mind of attractive women, there is no source ANYWHERE that will give you a more unadulterated view.
You can watch me:
That’s just the beginning. These are all 100% real conversations I’ve had with women that I later cooked breakfast for (if I felt like it); if you can’t believe it, ask a hot lady you know if they ring true. There are routines I’ve tested and used for years, and they work. You can use them yourself, or come up with your own that follow the same rules I outline in my book.
Listen, I KNOW these work. Still, if you are skeptical, take a look at some of the unsolicited feedback I’ve received from students since I’ve published my system.
Happy Readers Write In… Along with some of my own ladies!
Derek, as I sat at my desk I realized that I held the nirvana of books on seduction in my hands. These are the sort of books that makes you get 'Derek Vitalio' tattooed across your chest.
Nothing I could write could summarize the worth of these books. I was so floored by their detailed and incisive content and direction that I would quit my job to afford the time and peace to absorb the captivating content over and over again. I'm living and breathing 'Seduction Science' now. Derek, you're not just a master, you're the master of masters. Thank you for teaching me.
Mel.
Derek, I found myself on a 3 hour plane ride next to a beautiful blonde woman from Key West, she was about 35 (I'm 26). 60 minutes into the conversation she gave me HER number, and when we got off the plane, she *followed* me to the train station. I was surprised to see her there and she was blushing when I found out!
She mentioned the movie 'The Graduate' and how sexy it would be to have a fling with a younger guy. Nothing like this had ever happened to me before (I don't even consider myself to be very good looking). Your program is great!
John A.
I studied your course from cover to cover and it showed me exactly where I made all my mistakes. I now have more confidence in myself. I always thought it was all about looks, but thanks to you I finally figured out that it's all about intelligence. Thanks!!
Andrew
I was in J.C. Penney yesterday, funny enough I was buying Satin sheets (haha).. and I spotted a gorgeous girl at the front desk. I went up to her and asked if she'd assist me in picking out some satin sheets.. (which by the way, she commented on by saying I had GOOD taste)
Using your techniques of #1 Really caring about her opinion #2 Giving her visualizations of me just curled up alone at night in the Satin sheets and hinting to the fact that she could be too, and #3 Closing by pinning down an exact time for us to meet once again.. (She helped me pick the sheets out of a catalog since they didn't have any on hand, and we planned on getting together when the sheets came in).
SHE closed by saying, "I'll call you to let you know when your sheets arrive... and maybe we can try them out." This is only the start my man. True philosophies show through in practice.
Regards,
Jim S.
I read through your books and at first I was skeptical that I could meet any woman I saw on the street and that she would call me within a couple days. But I decided to try it for just a week. I've been using the system now for 2 months now and I've been with 3 beautiful women. Great stuff.
William V.
Getting laid is sometimes a tricky thing. Unless you have great looks or a lot of money, the traditional form of dating is a complete pain in the ass. In fact, most of my friends can't get laid at all. What you need is something to rely on that will slowly but surely transform you into the man you want to be. Derek Vitalio has given me gold for the cost of pennies. Just spend a little of your time every day, and what you get back is enormous.
Aaron J.
One of Derek's girlfriends
I admire Derek's work and have studied him for a while now. To begin with, his books are KICK ASS. We went out together one night and were getting numbers from girls left and right (and got a few kisses too). His attitude wasn't serious at all, it was hilarious and we were just out having a good time. Derek's philosophy gives him an "out-of-the-matrix" lifestyle that most of us would find difficult to believe unless we saw it for ourselves in person. For example, Derek could charm 3 or 4 different ladies at a club and invite them ALL back to his apartment. That takes smarts and balls.
Derek also took the time to introduce me to some of the women he hangs out with. I was impressed; two of them were Perfect 10 babes (he likes natural over implants) that should be doing mag covers. And whenever I had a question for him, Derek took the time to explain things to me in detail until I got it. His experience will change your whole perception of what's possible. And when your whole point of view changes, how women respond to you will change too.
Matt D.
I wish I had met you and opened up my eyes 10 years ago! I would have had a blast. What you teach is truly unique and has changed me in ways I can't describe... not just with girls but in every area of my life... it's never too late to start.
Branstan C.
Tried your walk-up techniques in the mall but I was nervous and doing badly. Finally though I struck gold when I talked to the perfume girl at Victoria's Secret. She asked me for my number and I used your little card trick (brilliant). I thought I'd never hear from her again but a week later lo and behold she called me out of the blue and wanted to get together. She said she had just broken up with her 'asshole' boyfriend the day I talked to her and she loved my approach. We ended up spending a very warm Christmas together.
Anthony D.
I loved your site...I was amazed to discover that any man, no matter how ugly or personality challenged, could hypnotize a woman (not just any a woman) a beautiful woman to succumb to his will. I will be on alert now, thanks to you.
Rona S.
You don’t have to believe them, of course. Try my system for 90 days with no risk, and if you don’t believe in it, you’ll get your money back.
5% of all the men get 90% of the women, and 99% of the exceptionally attractive ones. Where do those numbers come from? Ok, I admit, it’s anecdotal experience. Maybe 10% of men get 80% of ladies.
Maybe 1% gets 98%.
What Percentile Do YOU Want to Be In?
The point isn’t the actual number – it’s that most beautiful women gravitate to a certain type of man. A type of man that you can learn to be.
This Will Take Work On Your Part
I’m not offering any magical elixir. I’m a man giving you a set of weights. Some men will let that set collect dust in the closet, and it won’t do them any good. Some men will lift them for a little while, but because our world is all about instant results, they’ll get tired of them before any major changes occur.
But SOME men will work with them every day, fight through the burn, and eventually achieve amazing results.
I’m looking for those men.
I don’t want to waste my time or yours if you aren’t prepared to put in the effort that this system requires. It’s not an easy pill, it’s not some penis-lengthening elixir, it’s KNOWLEDGE.
And knowledge without will is useless.
If you think you have the will to put this knowledge to use, though, I want to help. It took me six months before I started seeing success, and another few years before I was really where I wanted to be.
Take Advantage of Me, Please
Of course you have an advantage; you have my work as a guide for your progress, whereas I started from scratch.
For that reason, I believe you should start seeing results within – at the most – three months of practicing what I preach.
If you don’t see any improvement in that time, keep the book and I’ll refund your money. If, however, you are noticing improvements with the fairer sex – and I’m sure you will – you won’t have time to ask for a refund. You’ll be too busy entertaining ladies.
In fact, if you don’t get yourself a solid score with three hot women in those three months – even if you believe in what I’m saying – I’ll refund your money.
The money that, by the way, is less than the cost of ONE date before you knew the secrets of attraction.
Deal?
Does that sound fair? I thought it might.
As a bonus, I’m including access to my VIP lounge for the price of this course, where you get three books for the price of one.
Still not enough? How about a half-price discount? If you order my book by midnight of (today’s date), I’ll send it to you for $44.95, a 50% savings on the retail price.
Again, that 90 day guarantee remains in place. Consider your money a deposit on happiness – if you are satisfied, you need do nothing else.
If you aren’t, you are out exactly zero dollars and zero cents. Even after taxes.
Try it out. You’ll like it. If I didn’t think so, would I return your money?
Probably not. But I’m completely confident in my course, and so I’m sure you won’t want to return it. What have you got to lose?
Nothing but your lonely nights.
P.S. Don’t forget to act now to get Seduction Science Volume 2 – for half price – AND access to my V.I.P. lounge (with extra and more advanced materials, including advice on relationships and info about seminars) AND the jumpstart on an EXTREMELY fulfilling love life. If you aren’t happy after 90 days – and have a bunch of successful encounters with women added to your resume – I’ll GIVE YOU ALL your money back. No risk. High reward. For less than the cost of ONE date regular guys crash and burn on. I DARE you to come up with a reason NOT to do this.
You can’t? I didn’t think so. See you on the inside.
Your Friend,
Derek Vitalio